Tale of Two Guilt Trips

David was a king.  He has everything he could ever want.  But that wasn't enough.  He wanted a woman who belonged to another.  He devised a crafty plan, murdered the husband, and took Bathsheba.  He paid a hefty price for his sin, but guilt led to repentance and restoration.

Judas was a disciple.  He was treasurer of the "in" group.  But that wasn't enough.  He needed recognition.  He devised a crafty plan, betrayed Jesus, and paid a hefty price for his sin -  suicide.

Two men, two sins, different endings.

Forgive Until It Feels Good

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. ^{Matthew 18:21-22}

Peter was probably astounded at Jesus' answer.  He was being magnanimous in offering to forgive seven times.  But Jesus points out that if you are keeping count, your forgiveness is bogus and thus null and void.

I Corinthians 13 records that love "it keeps no record of wrongs" (5b) So when you are tempted to use old wounds or the past as ammunition, ask yourself "am I keeping records or do I truly forgive?"

Are You Sorry?

"I'm sorry.  It was completely my fault.  These words are very familiar.  Most of us have repeated them  many times to our spouse, to our friends, to our teachers, and to those who are closest to us - our family.

But what about to ourselves?  Are there things in your life that you won't forgive yourself for?  Are there unspoken sins and transgressions that bring humiliation and shame?  God doesn't want us to live like that.  That's the whole purpose of redemption, freedom, and new life.  He gives us a second chance.

It's time to give yourself the grace you would give another.  Forgive yourself of any words or actions that you regret.  Make recompense if necessary and move past that part of your life.  Give serious thought to housecleaning your soul.  Everyone will profit from it especially you.